Strength of Spirit Timing

[kinkomaster]

Like I said, I'm a noob, but I've always played that once the dice are rolled, the card is used and gone. The Father has plenty of time to use it before a die is rolled. I think we need to define when a card is used and gone. In a fight, once a card is used and a die is rolled, that card cannot be cancelled. Why would that example be different in any other part of the game? The "Remains in Play" is a different beast and never gets "used up", so there isn't any question with that.